What’s your value, and where do you get it from? Are you looking to people and other factors outside of yourself to help you to feel good about yourself? As long as you are getting your value from sources outside of yourself, you are at the mercy of other people and circumstances, and will never have full control of your own experience.
The great news is, you don’t need anything or anyone else to create your value — in fact, the only way to create true value is to create it within yourself.
Where Does Your Value Come From?
Although it appears that our value comes from what others think of us, how others feel about us, and how others treat us, the truth is the data that determines each person’s value is inside themselves. Think of a page printing from a computer. It looks like whatever is printed on that page is coming from the computer, but the truth is, it is coming from the file on the computer.
Not only will changing the printer not result in the changes you want on that document, but the printer is incapable of making changes to it. No matter how much you try to make the printer make the changes you want, to that document, it does not have the ability to make those changes. You could add other printers to the computer, but the print-out won’t change.
It’s the same with your life. What you’re experiencing is the printed page, and the printers represent the people and other factors in your life. No matter how much you try to get them to change what you’re experiencing, they don’t have the ability to change it.
Even if they made the changes you think would make you feel valued, your value would not change. Changing the printers doesn’t change the document. Your subconscious is the computer — in order to change the document that is printing out, you need to change the file on the computer.
In the same way, in order to change your value, you need to change the data in your subconscious — the records that your subconscious is referring to.
How to Increase Your Own Value
The first step in increasing your value is to realize that the only source of your value is inside you. Nothing outside of you will change your value. Only you can do that. The second step is to use the FasterEFT Technique to change the memories that support your current value.
In other words, think about how you know that people don’t value you, or how you know that your value is low, then address that using the FasterEFT process. Keep repeating the process until you have completely flipped each of those memories.
Every time you find yourself feeling less than valuable, use FasterEFT in the moment to tap it out. If you’re in a situation that means you can’t tap physically, use Mental Tapping.
To find out more about how the subconscious data is created and how it affects daily life, read: The REAL Cause of All Your Problems.
For step-by-step guidance in using the technique, read: The FasterEFT Technique — Step-by-Step.
To watch videos on FasterEFT visit the FasterEFT YouTube Channel.
Article by: Robert G. Smith
Originally published at fastereft.com on May 24, 2016.